Is it OK to buy girl`s clothes for my 17 year old son? - I am a loving mother of two. My son, our eldest, has been caught repetedly "borrowing" things from his sisters room. skirts, panties, bras... you name it. And it has been causing my daughter a lot of stress. I would frequently find soiled panties and worn pantyhose in the hamper next to his room. One day I came home a little early from work and went in his room to see if there was anything I needed to pick up before doing the laundry and found that he was asleep. His back was turned to me and I noticed something that looked to me like a bra strap slightly revealing through the neck part of the t-shirt he was wearing. I couldn`t believe what I was seeing so I got a little closer to get a better look.Sure enough I could see that it was a bra strap and it was mine. I could tell by the lace lining on the side. I couldn`t believe that my son would actually go through my things like that and put on something like my bra. I knew he was "borrowing" things from me and his sister but seeing him wear these things was a whole different story for me. I immediately woke him up and confronted him. He seemed very upset and embarassed. I told him to take my b off and he did. However in the process of doing so I discovered that my bra was not the only thing he had "borrowed" he was wearing one of my garters, hose and a panty that I had never seen before under his sweatpants. It was a white polka-dot brief with pink lace lining I knew for a fact that it wasn`t mine and I had never bought my daughter anything like it. I made him take it all off and meet me in the living room with the "borrowed" undergarments. When he finally came downstairs I told him that these things were not for him and that he shouldn`t take things that wasn`t his without permission, even if it was from family members. When I asked him about the mystery panty he just shrugged and then silence. Finally when I told him that his father would have to know about this he confessed that he took the panty in question from a friends house. After giving him the whole speach about stealing and how wrong it was, I made him wash them and take them back to his friends house and apologize. I actually drove him there and made sure that that`s what he did. Weeks past and just when things were getting back to normal things started to dissappear agin. It got to the point where I would hestiate to buy lingerie for myself and I would never get. anything lacy or frilly for my daughter for fear my son might not be able to deal with the temptation of putting them on. After that all I bought was plain cotton underwear for myself and my daughter and I notied that things didn`t dissappear as often. Just when I thought I had sucessfully dealt with the problem, my son hit me with the big one. He asked me one day, out of the blue, if I could take him shopping for clothes like his sister`s. At first I turned him down without even thinking but he was very persistant and I was afraid that he would eventualy try to steal another pair of panties or something else again from a friends house or worse from a store. So finally I gave in and have been buying him his own panties, bras, and even pantyhose for the past few months now. He saves up his allowance to buy the occasional skirt or tanktop and I let him dress freely around the house. He seems much happier and his sister is no longer stressed. He let his hair grow out and now he dresses up heels and all! Sometimes when I do the laundry I find myself forgetting that I have a son and have two daughters instead lol. I know many people would probably disagree with what I am doing but I love my son and things seem to be working out alot better. So why not go with what works? I just hope my doing so won`t have a negative impact on my children later in life.

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